Help please? my daughter is a complete sociopath... just read it i need alot of opinions please?

my daughter is 17 turning 18, she is completely out of control. you cant talk to her without it ending up in an argument and her HAVING TO WIN the argument before its over. all she cares about it herself and she is extremely narcissistic. she is constantly angry and has NO remorse for the things she does. when i had my 2nd child, she would smoke pot in the room right next to the baby and it would seep through the door and she continued to do it. she stole my credit card and took out alot of money until i found out. i got her arrested and now she is on probation. she was arrested 6 months before this as well from stealing from a store. shes gotten into physical fights with clmates. she doesnt care about school and doesnt have many friends (her bestfriend is a pothead and he is a narcissistic a**hole) although she is graduating in 2 months... ping but barely. she doesnt have a boyfriend. i sent her to an outpatient rehab for a year and a psych ward for a week and neither did anything. she doesnt seem to learn and i always tell her shes going to learn the hard way but she doesnt care... she doesnt seem to care about anything or anyone but herself for that matter. i dont know what to do with her i have a feeling she will leave a job or college in the future and have a terrible life. shes completely out of anyones control and she isnt "scared" of anyone so its impossible for anyone to discipline her (ive asked some of my toughest and most ertive male friends to try and set her somwhat straight.. these guys even scare me sometimes and they would definitely be able to scare any girl but they didnt intimidate her one bit) i dont know what to do with her.. she has no cl, no manners, her mouth is flithy and she sounds like a dirty hick when she talks. what should i do with her opinions please